This weekend, I know all of our hearts and thoughts are with the people of Japan. An earthquake like this immediately reminds us how small this planet really is, how connected we all are – and how the human bonds we share are unshakable. To find out ways to help, click here.
Switching gears, I get tons of emails from young guys (and a few gals) that are trying to come to terms with their sexuality.They almost always ask, “How do I know if I’m gay?” I decided to answer their emails
Unfortunately, there is no easy way to determine if you are gay.
There are no scientific tests or sterotypes that determine your sexuality. You will find out through experience and feelings.
Most define being gay as having a strong bond or sexual attraction to another man.
Others define it as a lifestyle which includes behaviors and social interactions.
You should ask yourself several questions about your sexuality and sexual preferences. Do you prefer sex with a man?
Are you physically attracted to men? Do you feel an emotional bond with a man?
Would you consider an intimate relationship with a man?
Try not to fall into the trap of stereotypes. Gay men are just as diverse as straight men.
There are no mannerisms, music or clothing preferences that can define a person as gay.
The Kinsey Scale is a good start in determining your sexuality.
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